My sister called me after work, my gran (who has terminal cancer) has had a series of small strokes. She has a DNAR and an anticipatory care plan which means her children knew not to call an ambulance or take her to hospital. Mum says she's very confused but asking for her grandchildren (who are all adults). Per my grandad and her children's wishes we didn't go over tonight but if she makes it through the night we are (most of us, some stuck abroad) going over tomorrow to sit with her.
I'm finding it hard, my gran is a huge person in my life and I'll miss her when she goes but I know she can't stay and it's not fair for us to make her feel like she should.
Just to put icing on the cake, I realised today that I've not had a period since December. We've been trying for a baby since we got married 4 years ago with absolutely no luck, I'm terrified of taking a test. I'm just filing it at the back of my mind until I can deal with my gran, I think the stress might be affecting my cycles.
My sister called me after work, my gran (who has terminal cancer) has had a series of small strokes. She has a DNAR and an anticipatory care plan which means her children knew not to call an ambulance or take her to hospital. Mum says she's very confused but asking for her grandchildren (who are all adults). Per my grandad and her children's wishes we didn't go over tonight but if she makes it through the night we are (most of us, some stuck abroad) going over tomorrow to sit with her.
I'm finding it hard, my gran is a huge person in my life and I'll miss her when she goes but I know she can't stay and it's not fair for us to make her feel like she should.
Just to put icing on the cake, I realised today that I've not had a period since December. We've been trying for a baby since we got married 4 years ago with absolutely no luck, I'm terrified of taking a test. I'm just filing it at the back of my mind until I can deal with my gran, I think the stress might be affecting my cycles.
