I broke off contact with my sister.
She lived with an alcoholic before. She borrowed lots of money from my mother. Once 15000 Euro, to pay off her debts, and the next week the couple went to Spain...
When my mother went in a nursing home my sister wanted to get 500 Euro. I told her this was not an option.
Our mother was now in a situation where she would spend more money than her income.
My mother died two years ago and left us still a decent amount of money.
My sister blocked one third of the money in an account, and the rest she already spent, probably lots of it on alcohol and likely other drugs.
Now for a couple of months my sister left her boyfriend and went in a mental institution.
We had again some contact, but she's really not very sain. She told me she wanted to go to a buddhist monastry. I asked her if she already contacted these people... it was just an idea.
Then whe wanted to commit euthanasia, I didn't react much to that, just attention seeking.
She told me she wanted to study to be a nurse, like she tried already twice before. I told her given the history of two failures, I didn't think this time it was going to work.
She hates it when I do that, taking her fluffy hope away.
Now she told me the boyfriend has longcancer and doesn't want to have surgery for it... the guy took her telephone when she left... and when I told her that she should consider the guy was a nasty person and she shouldn't be involved with him, she got annoyed with me, and told me that unlike me, she couldn't be a robot...
I decide to break contact with her. It's a bit too complicated, her situation, and I'm not going to make any exceptions to the rule: nobody talks to me like that and still gets attention from me.
I did this after not being able to sleep, so I also have to think about my own well-being. I actually had my nervous breakdown because of this feeling of being utterly alone surrounded with three siblings that only think about their own interests.