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So frustrated I could go pop!

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Hello,

I'm sorry but I feel a need to rant.

I am 42 and have spent the last 25 years receiving treatment from our not so wonderful mental health system. I recently requested an autism screening and have been diagnosed HFA/Aspergers. My son was diagnosed about five years ago, he's 14 now. My problem is that now I've got this diagnosis my GP, psychologist, etc tell me I'm now going to be fine. Keep taking my medication and I can get on with my life problem free. I can and maybe will - eventually - but do they think this diagnosis is some magical spell? That it can somehow evaporate 42 years of mental health problems like they never existed, just because now I know why they existed? I came away from my GP yesterday feeling like I would have got more understanding from talking to a brick wall.

Rant over! Can antone else relate to this? 

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous

    Hi Jon,

    Thanks for your reply. I wasn't in the best of moods yesterday, feeling a bit less spikey today! It has given me a lot of understanding, it's just it coincided with a "difficult" time and all seems to be happening at once. We don't have any local support groups but I'm meeting up with the autism outreach worker shortly who will be able to offer some help.

    The diagnosis makes a lot of sense, I've known myself since my son was diagnosed but I needed a professional opinion to be absolutely sure. My son struggles but we are working through it together and look at it like a big thousand piece jigsaw that's been unsolvable for years - now we have the corner pieces in, we're working on the edges. Once they are in place I think the middle will come together by itself.

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    Anonymous

    Hi Jon,

    Thanks for your reply. I wasn't in the best of moods yesterday, feeling a bit less spikey today! It has given me a lot of understanding, it's just it coincided with a "difficult" time and all seems to be happening at once. We don't have any local support groups but I'm meeting up with the autism outreach worker shortly who will be able to offer some help.

    The diagnosis makes a lot of sense, I've known myself since my son was diagnosed but I needed a professional opinion to be absolutely sure. My son struggles but we are working through it together and look at it like a big thousand piece jigsaw that's been unsolvable for years - now we have the corner pieces in, we're working on the edges. Once they are in place I think the middle will come together by itself.

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