Getting your own place

In the next few years I'm considering getting my own place to aid my indepence developements and just my general social confidence. 

What I want to create in my new house is a Autism Room which would allow me to process the world, because I have unique way of processing world and that by seeing what it feels like to be in someone else shoes, so this room would enable that to take place out of sight of the rest of the house where visitors might see it and think it weird. 

Has anyone else with Autism ever rented their first home to progress in life and got unique ways of processing the world. 

I would love to find out more about this possiable exciting journey approaching in the next few years. 

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  • I’m not sure what you mean by an autism room but if it would help you process the world then I think that you should go for it. I don’t have anything like that though as for me I feel like it’s my house, you are only coming into it if I say so, therefore the whole house should work for me. If you think I’m weird because of my house you are not coming in it bluntly. I will scatter fiddle toys, furry animals, lava lamps and things like weighted blankets all over it thank you very much! That’s a personal preference though and very much depends if you’ll be sharing the space with anyone else clearly!

    To be fair I’m very lucky that I live in my own house these days. I started out renting a room in a shared house - in that circumstance obviously everything is in the one room anyway. Sharing houses was difficult for me for lots of reasons. Living alone (or previously with family) was/ is much better. Might have been better to wait longer before moving out and go straight to living alone in retrospect. On the other hand that would have been a big step in terms of everything that needs looking after. I do find it a challenge to manage everyday life at times. Eg without direct debits bills would not get paid on time, without supermarket deliveries and ready meals I would probably survive on cereal. I find it difficult sorting things like repairs and so on too (phone calls then having a stranger in the house!!). Make sure you’ve got support lined up for if/when you need it.

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  • I’m not sure what you mean by an autism room but if it would help you process the world then I think that you should go for it. I don’t have anything like that though as for me I feel like it’s my house, you are only coming into it if I say so, therefore the whole house should work for me. If you think I’m weird because of my house you are not coming in it bluntly. I will scatter fiddle toys, furry animals, lava lamps and things like weighted blankets all over it thank you very much! That’s a personal preference though and very much depends if you’ll be sharing the space with anyone else clearly!

    To be fair I’m very lucky that I live in my own house these days. I started out renting a room in a shared house - in that circumstance obviously everything is in the one room anyway. Sharing houses was difficult for me for lots of reasons. Living alone (or previously with family) was/ is much better. Might have been better to wait longer before moving out and go straight to living alone in retrospect. On the other hand that would have been a big step in terms of everything that needs looking after. I do find it a challenge to manage everyday life at times. Eg without direct debits bills would not get paid on time, without supermarket deliveries and ready meals I would probably survive on cereal. I find it difficult sorting things like repairs and so on too (phone calls then having a stranger in the house!!). Make sure you’ve got support lined up for if/when you need it.

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