Published on 12, July, 2020
I'm wondering if anyone else has ever fantasied about there dream wedding day or any similar life events which they have yet to experience and waiting for the moment for it too happen, as lately been fantasying about my dream wedding but I'm single and no sign of my future bride to be in the near future.
My dream day would be a truely no conventional wedding following no traditions what so ever, i know for a austitic person that can be challenging but for me it a chance for me to experience everything new in one day and one of these experience would be me seeing what if feels like to be bride and wear the traditional bride outfit and all what the bride would experience e.t.c then rest of will be truely unique to fit my personaility.
Because wedding days are only time you could protential any of this special magic creating stuff so you might as well go all guns blazing.
I know i fantasy alot because of my condition trying to figure out what everyone purpose is on this planet by trying to step in to there shoes no matter the gender.
I can't do it yet though - need to sort something else out first - or I'll still be tied to him after the divorce.
go get it
https://www.divorce-online.co.uk/ they appear to offer something under 100 quid
(I'm still married to my ex - saving up for a divorce!)
I'm worthy of love and commitment - but I'm not fussed about a piece of paper that can easily be undone with another piece of paper.
but you are worth it ?
I personally don't believe in marriage any more - I believe that if that's all that's holding a couple together - it isn't worth it. When I got married I only spent £200 on my dress - couldn't face the thought of spending over £1000 on something I would wear once.
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Yes, the same things happened with me when I was doing wedding shooting. it was a very special day when everyone gives the attention you. I imagine which dress wear on my wedding day. LOLI thought it only happened to me.
In the last couple of years, I've swung back around. I no longer keep a notebook, but I do have a folder on my computer of wedding-related items that I'll occasionally add to if I see something great. These days I'm thinking a less over-the-top gown and something that's probably more blue than white. I'd still have daisies in my hair and lobster on the menu, and my dad and I would still dance to "Speak Softly, Love," because, I mean, come on, that's funny. I know I would hire my best friend who owns his own photo booth company [link removed by moderator due to advertising rules] to be there to make the event that much more special!
I fantsy and prelan everything in my life. Work the next day, shoping everything even my own death. im not married but i did used to think and fantasy aout it a lot! I used to think about what dress id wear, who would attend and what the wedding song would be. I did this for ages untiil round about now when i hit my 20s and life took over. I still fantasy and worry about things but not really happy things im more thinking about the future, what will happen. It scares me rigid but its become a part of my everyday life now.
i hope you met someone soon though. good luck!
NAS62565 said:That was a little funny adventure to have the day spent in a somewhat fairish atmosphere.
Funny in what way? Funny how?
Hang on I meant to ask "Why book a Bristol wedding photographer for a barn dance in Berkshire?" but foolishly wrote Why book a Bristol wedding band for a barn dance in Berkshire?
Wait, what?
NAS62565 said:make a shooting before the reception. That was a little funny adventure to have the day spent in a somewhat fairish atmosphere.
Why book a Bristol wedding band for a barn dance in Berkshire? - that's crazy!
I have recently had a wedding party at my sister's barn in Berkshire and mom booked a ceremony and [link removed by moderator] service to make a shooting before the reception. That was a little funny adventure to have the day spent in a somewhat fairish atmosphere.
Never say never. You just don't know what is in store for you!
I did when I was younger but then when I grew up I realised it may never happen, then my partner of 17 years proposed and I got married in 2012. I do not like to be the centre of attention it is my worst nightmare, so we went up to Gretna Green, with our 3 dogs my mum and 2 friends who basically invited themselves, (they live in Aberdeenshire I've known them since I was 4 years old), I bought a dress from Monsoon and we did it, I wouldn't want it any other way, no argument as to who to invite and we spent the majority of our budget on the hotel which was stunning. No fuss just a lovely day.
Not necessarily fantasising about it but when I have been at friends/family I just cannot envisage having one as it would/will never be like normal weddings. I'm took stuck in my ways and said I will never settle down (that was over 26 years ago).
I don't honestly think about getting married as I don't think anyone could ever tolerate living with me. But if I ever do, it will involve wingsuits, parachutes, storming the wedding venue with paintball guns and much drinking and cake.
I retreat to my day dreams and head space as often as I can. I practically live most of my life making up stories. In fact i can dip into it at times when I rreally shouldnt if I'm not careful. I also talk to myself an awful lot which I think really scares people at times. I know when I used to work they would often steer clear of me especially when I was driving heavy machinery (which suited me).
Don't worry about dropping into a fantasy world. Its normal for us. It is one of those little gifts that NT's can't easily tap into.
Thejollygiant said:a truely no conventional wedding following no traditions what so ever
Tradition created weddings.