Does anyone else fantasy about things like there Wedding Day e.t.c

I'm wondering if anyone else has ever fantasied about there dream wedding day or any similar life events which they have yet to experience and waiting for the moment for it too happen, as lately been fantasying about my dream wedding but I'm single and no sign of my future bride to be in the near future. 

My dream day would be a truely no conventional wedding following no traditions what so ever, i know for a austitic person that can be challenging but for me it a chance for me to experience everything new in one day and one of these experience would be me seeing what if feels like to be bride and wear the traditional bride outfit and all what the bride would experience e.t.c then rest of will be truely unique to fit my personaility. 

Because wedding days are only time you could protential any of this special magic creating stuff so you might as well go all guns blazing. 

I know i fantasy alot because of my condition trying to figure out what everyone purpose is on this planet by trying to step in to there shoes no matter the gender. 

  • I see my wedding day, as usual, my birthday day. I don't want many people around, only my family and friends of my husband. We will sit, drink, and talk in the place where I usually meet my friends on my birthday https://opaorlando.com/catering/. After that, we will go on some interesting trip with my future husband. I know that changing the place can be brought to my state, so I am now preparing to visit some other interesting places with my husband after the wedding. You are welcome if you have a good suggestion where I can go with my husband.

  • These are not fantasies. It is a real plan. I don't have a fiancé in mind or even a friend with whom I could spend my life. But as a girl, I already know what I will do. So, it will be responsible for preparation for https://bachelorettepartyhelp.com/?qb-b=the-perfect-packing-list-for-your-bachelorette-glamping-trip, party planning. Then there will be a beautiful restaurant overlooking the mountains and enclosed glades where I will run barefoot and look out over the ocean. Then there will be a photo shoot on the beach. And of course a church wedding, but I want to do it at home. Who's getting married at home?

  • Yeeeessss I fantasize about my wedding and what it will be like a lot! I keep a journal and write about it so much. I want it to be perfect when the day does finally come Slight smile

  • When I was a child my only ambition in life was to get married and have a child. During my teens, I would spend hours fantasising about my wedding, even though I had no boyfriend. There was one occasion when my mother thought I had completely lost the plot because I had drawn up a table plan of who would sit where at the wedding breakfast. Because I had no boyfriend, this table plan only consisted of my friends and relatives. Wink Laughing

    I would fantasise about my marriage and the kind of house that I might live in, what the garden might look like, etc. I was realistic enough to know that this marriage would not be perfect all of the time, so had factored in disagreements that myself and my future husband might have. This was something that none of my NT friends had ever done when fantasising about their own weddings and married life.

  • I do this. I'm actually divorced so I have had a wedding previously so I know what I would do differently this time. 

    I fantasy about my future wedding alot. I am in a relationship but we're not engaged but we do talk about getting married and having kids and what our life together will be like. I love thinking about these things. 

    I do it with other things too like imaginary holiday shopping, pet shopping and house shopping.Joy

    You're not alone. 

  • I've never been married, I would have liked it, but it's to late now, i've finally accepted that  i'm to old, i'm on my own. But fantacies about a big wedding, definitely NO  !!! If i were ever to marry i'd want to run away to Gretna Green, just the two of us. I think it would be my worst nightmare to be the centre of attention in a big room full of people, and have to give a speech.

  • I honestly do and I plan to do more research on specific venues and other things(btw I want a nightmare before christmas themed wedding). It's all because of my special girl.

  • I don't see marriage happening as I don't think I'd be easy to live and cope with. But I also have a huge fear of people so that makes it unlikely as well. I do think about it a lot though, the dress I would wear, the church, the wedding car, the day... I've got all of it planned already. I spend so much time thinking and planning. I doubt it will ever happen but a girl can and does dream :) 

  • Absolute! But this is funny because it started 2 years ago. I didn't even think I would ever get married or find the man to become my perfect half until then. All this until at a party I met a boy, my current boyfriend and I hope my future husband. I'm not obsessgentleman's gurued with marriage or something; I visualize this event in life as something magical. I saw in a shop window a wedding dress that meets all my requirements and a tuxedo made by [link removed by moderator], which I think would fit my boyfriend perfectly.

  • i believe you are new --- so welcome to this Forum

    we have a photography section here if u want to post a random photo and comment

    community.autism.org.uk/.../photography-section

  • Yes, the same things happened with me when I was doing wedding shooting. it was a very special day when everyone gives the attention you. I imagine which dress wear on my wedding day. LOL
    I thought it only happened to me.

  • In the last couple of years, I've swung back around. I no longer keep a notebook, but I do have a folder on my computer of wedding-related items that I'll occasionally add to if I see something great. These days I'm thinking a less over-the-top gown and something that's probably more blue than white. I'd still have daisies in my hair and lobster on the menu, and my dad and I would still dance to "Speak Softly, Love," because, I mean, come on, that's funny. I know I would hire my best friend who owns his own photo booth company [link removed by moderator due to advertising rules] to be there to make the event that much more special! 

  • I fantsy and prelan everything in my life. Work the next day, shoping everything even my own death. im not married but i did used to think and fantasy aout it a lot! I used to think about what dress id wear, who would attend and what the wedding song would be. I did this for ages untiil round about now when i hit my 20s and life took over. I still fantasy and worry about things but not really happy things im more thinking about the future, what will happen. It scares me rigid but its become a part of my everyday life now.

    i hope you met someone soon though. good luck!

  • That was a little funny adventure to have the day spent in a somewhat fairish atmosphere. 

    Funny in what way? Funny how?

  • Hang on I meant to ask "Why book a Bristol wedding photographer for a barn dance in Berkshire?" but foolishly wrote Why book a Bristol wedding band for a barn dance in Berkshire?

  • Wait, what?

    make a shooting before the reception. That was a little funny adventure to have the day spent in a somewhat fairish atmosphere. 

    Why book a Bristol wedding band for a barn dance in Berkshire? - that's crazy!

  • I have recently had a wedding party at my sister's barn in Berkshire and mom booked a ceremony and [link removed by moderator] service to make a shooting before the reception. That was a little funny adventure to have the day spent in a somewhat fairish atmosphere. 

  • Never say never. You just don't know what is in store for you!

  • I did when I was younger but then when I grew up I realised it may never happen, then my partner of 17 years proposed and I got married in 2012. I do not like to be the centre of attention it is my worst nightmare, so we went up to Gretna Green, with our 3 dogs my mum and 2 friends who basically invited themselves, (they live in Aberdeenshire I've known them since I was 4 years old), I bought a dress from Monsoon and we did it, I wouldn't want it any other way, no argument as to who to invite and we spent the majority of our budget on the hotel which was stunning. No fuss just a lovely day.

  • Not necessarily fantasising about it but when I have been at friends/family I just cannot envisage having one as it would/will never be like normal weddings.  I'm took stuck in my ways and said I will never settle down (that was over 26 years ago).