I'm wondering if anyone else has ever fantasied about there dream wedding day or any similar life events which they have yet to experience and waiting for the moment for it too happen, as lately been fantasying about my dream wedding but I'm single and no sign of my future bride to be in the near future.
My dream day would be a truely no conventional wedding following no traditions what so ever, i know for a austitic person that can be challenging but for me it a chance for me to experience everything new in one day and one of these experience would be me seeing what if feels like to be bride and wear the traditional bride outfit and all what the bride would experience e.t.c then rest of will be truely unique to fit my personaility.
Because wedding days are only time you could protential any of this special magic creating stuff so you might as well go all guns blazing.
I know i fantasy alot because of my condition trying to figure out what everyone purpose is on this planet by trying to step in to there shoes no matter the gender.
Thejollygiant said:a truely no conventional wedding following no traditions what so ever
Tradition created weddings.
I don't honestly think about getting married as I don't think anyone could ever tolerate living with me. But if I ever do, it will involve wingsuits, parachutes, storming the wedding venue with paintball guns and much drinking and cake.
I retreat to my day dreams and head space as often as I can. I practically live most of my life making up stories. In fact i can dip into it at times when I rreally shouldnt if I'm not careful. I also talk to myself an awful lot which I think really scares people at times. I know when I used to work they would often steer clear of me especially when I was driving heavy machinery (which suited me).
Don't worry about dropping into a fantasy world. Its normal for us. It is one of those little gifts that NT's can't easily tap into.
Not necessarily fantasising about it but when I have been at friends/family I just cannot envisage having one as it would/will never be like normal weddings. I'm took stuck in my ways and said I will never settle down (that was over 26 years ago).
I did when I was younger but then when I grew up I realised it may never happen, then my partner of 17 years proposed and I got married in 2012. I do not like to be the centre of attention it is my worst nightmare, so we went up to Gretna Green, with our 3 dogs my mum and 2 friends who basically invited themselves, (they live in Aberdeenshire I've known them since I was 4 years old), I bought a dress from Monsoon and we did it, I wouldn't want it any other way, no argument as to who to invite and we spent the majority of our budget on the hotel which was stunning. No fuss just a lovely day.
Never say never. You just don't know what is in store for you!
I have recently had a wedding party at my sister's barn in Berkshire and mom booked a ceremony and bristol wedding photographers service to make a shooting before the reception. That was a little funny adventure to have the day spent in a somewhat fairish atmosphere.
NAS62565 said:make a shooting before the reception. That was a little funny adventure to have the day spent in a somewhat fairish atmosphere.
Why book a Bristol wedding band for a barn dance in Berkshire? - that's crazy!
Hang on I meant to ask "Why book a Bristol wedding photographer for a barn dance in Berkshire?" but foolishly wrote Why book a Bristol wedding band for a barn dance in Berkshire?
NAS62565 said:That was a little funny adventure to have the day spent in a somewhat fairish atmosphere.
Funny in what way? Funny how?
I fantsy and prelan everything in my life. Work the next day, shoping everything even my own death. im not married but i did used to think and fantasy aout it a lot! I used to think about what dress id wear, who would attend and what the wedding song would be. I did this for ages untiil round about now when i hit my 20s and life took over. I still fantasy and worry about things but not really happy things im more thinking about the future, what will happen. It scares me rigid but its become a part of my everyday life now.
i hope you met someone soon though. good luck!