How to cope with grandson

I'm a grandmother with a 9 year old grandson with Autism, ADHD, ODD, ASD coupled with sensory processing difficulties and motor coordination difficulties.  Recently he has become very challenging, and violent to his younger brother.  To see the evil in his eyes is just so upsetting.  He was a really loving little boy when he was younger, but now it is so difficult to cope with him.

Can anyone suggest where I can go to get help with knowing how to support him?

  • Thank you for taking the time to respond to me.  I will start reading some of the threads on here for help.

    Kind regards

  • Look on this site for things in your area. Ask his parents if they can recommend somewhere. It can be common for children to start lashing out when they are struggling to understand how they are feeling and the "evil" you are seeing in his eyes is probably total consumption of his emotions overwhelming him