Any advice appreciated

Hi all. I need some advice about my 11 year old daughter. 

Inmy family, we have always noticed she is quirky but of late, this quirkiness is becoming more apparent and worrying. She suffered from tics a year ago, so much so I thought she may have Tourette's. This waxed and waned for a while and now has virtually gone.

Since she was small, she won't wear buttons, I've recently discovered its because people will see her wearing them, not she doesn't like them. She also seems to have echolalia (repeating phrases from t.v. Or people) 

She comes home from school and sometimes just shouts out random noise as if she's been holding it in. She has no real self awareness, will get in your face, not angrily. Doesn't get jokes or sarcasm. No real bond with family besides me. She can be in her own little world, humming grimacing general noise making. Gets very excited and animated over food. Always wanting to eat and remembers people by the food they ate, eg. Oh, I remember her, she had a jam sandwich. If anyone eating loudly she shouts and leaves the room. There's more but I won't go on.

She does well in school and they have no concerns tho whenever they go out or on a bus,  she always seems to be the one walking on her own, while the others are paired up (not through her choice). also, the older she gets the more her immaturity is showing, can't say she has changed since at least 8 years old

Could she have ASD. Any advice would be great :) 

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  • Again thanks, no problem about long reply, I'm like a sponge at the moment trying to find out everything I can.  Yes, I think my daughter has masked any symptoms in school and although it will probably be hard work maybe she can do enough in comp to fit in. On the plus side, it makes me feel a lot better reading your two replies as you seem like a well adjustEd bright young woman who's coping with life really well. You must be proud of yourself! And it's a relief to read that school was ok for you, fingers crossed it will be like that for my girl.

    Ive been to the dr. And she said she would pass on my girls information. I wrote a list of her traits as I saw them so she was going to pass that on with her notes I presume. Waiting to hear back.

    Ill update here if/when I get any news. Thanks aqua x

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  • Again thanks, no problem about long reply, I'm like a sponge at the moment trying to find out everything I can.  Yes, I think my daughter has masked any symptoms in school and although it will probably be hard work maybe she can do enough in comp to fit in. On the plus side, it makes me feel a lot better reading your two replies as you seem like a well adjustEd bright young woman who's coping with life really well. You must be proud of yourself! And it's a relief to read that school was ok for you, fingers crossed it will be like that for my girl.

    Ive been to the dr. And she said she would pass on my girls information. I wrote a list of her traits as I saw them so she was going to pass that on with her notes I presume. Waiting to hear back.

    Ill update here if/when I get any news. Thanks aqua x

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