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How to maintain sanity

Desmond1979

This World truly is insane. So, how do we keep our heads; when others lose theirs?

A Spiritual Awakening helps. Also, isolating from the madding crowd. We can't focus on others, too much. We're no longer in a World where everyone's a 'People-Person'. It's deffo dog-eat-dog.

Choose quality of time, rather than quantity. For so long, I was a performing-bear; rather than a Boy/Man. I had to show others my worthiness. Now, I couldn't care less.

For Men, we need to be valued as individuals. Women tend to start their life story with the sentence 'I always wanted to fit in.' Camaraderie is the modus-operandi of Women, as if life's an episode of 'Deal or no Deal?'. A Man preferes being a Lone Wolf. For too long, Mammy had to do everything for us. Now, we want to stand on our own two feet.

I value myself more. Because the wheet is separated from the darnell.

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  • Desmond1979 said:
    For Men, we need to be valued as individuals

    I found most men base their value of what they can do or provide. This is not necessarily how others value them but it explains why so many men fixate on the value of being a provider in a relationship rather than contributing to the partnership emotionally with their other half.

    Identifying your value is something steeped in your environment, social upbringing and inherited family values. It really helps to map it all out and identify what is really important at the end of the day and use this to establish your true worth to yourself.

    Just my take on things.

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  • Desmond1979 said:
    For Men, we need to be valued as individuals

    I found most men base their value of what they can do or provide. This is not necessarily how others value them but it explains why so many men fixate on the value of being a provider in a relationship rather than contributing to the partnership emotionally with their other half.

    Identifying your value is something steeped in your environment, social upbringing and inherited family values. It really helps to map it all out and identify what is really important at the end of the day and use this to establish your true worth to yourself.

    Just my take on things.

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