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gem1223

Hi, this is my first post. I am a single parent to a 15 year old daughter who has adhd and autism. Im also studying to become a teacher and I am really struggling at the moment. My daughter has a lot of medical issues that require medical treatment, however, she cannot tolerate most medications due to being unable to swallow tablets and unable to tolerate the taste of liquid medications. She has to have two teeth removed today due to swelling. She cannot be put under GA and has to have it at the regular dentist. If it becomes infected, she will need antibiotics but cannot take them, she literally vomits when she tries. Even after managing to swallow, it comes back up. I don't even think I am writing for advice, just for some recognition. Everything is difficult with her and I am facing it on my own, her dad lives hours away and hardly sees her. I have reached burnout again and have no motivation or joy in life. if anyone has any words of comfort, they would be greatly received. An exhausted mum. 

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  • Hey, sounds like a rough time your having. 

    It's really difficult not being able to take medicine, I can understand the issues with not being able to hold it down -although I can take tablets, when I was a kid it was disperol they gave you (before the days of Calpol), and I remember my mum urging me to drink the stuff but just finding it impossible. So I can sympathise with the issue. I don't suppose they can prescribe any other type at all (probably not if you've tried, though might be worth asking the GP rather than the dentist in case that helps any). 

    Talking about it can help too though, I hope you can find just a small bit of relief in discussing your struggles. Take care of yourself too, it might feel impossible but you'll do better for her if you are less burned out. (Big ask for a single parent!)

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  • Hey, sounds like a rough time your having. 

    It's really difficult not being able to take medicine, I can understand the issues with not being able to hold it down -although I can take tablets, when I was a kid it was disperol they gave you (before the days of Calpol), and I remember my mum urging me to drink the stuff but just finding it impossible. So I can sympathise with the issue. I don't suppose they can prescribe any other type at all (probably not if you've tried, though might be worth asking the GP rather than the dentist in case that helps any). 

    Talking about it can help too though, I hope you can find just a small bit of relief in discussing your struggles. Take care of yourself too, it might feel impossible but you'll do better for her if you are less burned out. (Big ask for a single parent!)

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