Feeling disempowered, how do you cope?

I feel really disempowered by my inability to find clothes to fit let alone ones that I like, its the same with shoes, why are all non formal shoes trainers? I don't want trainers, I don't like them and have never owned a pair.

I think it's the lack of shops that makes me feel disempowered, we will need new ceiling lights for upstairs due to electrical problems, there's two places where we can actually go and look at a small selection of stuff. What if we can't find anything we like? I hate looking at pictures online theres just an object on a blank background, theres no perspective like there used to be in old fashioned catalogues. When I do look online I have to wade through pages and pages of sponsered ads and stuff I didn't ask for to the point where I just give up.

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  • I find that my stomach size means I should be a large but I find xl a better fit but it’s too baggy which is fine for plain clothes but annoys me wirh ones that have  a design I like(which now that im trying to be more expressive is most of my clothes ro the point I want to buy a Kurt cobain style black and green striped shirt agin like I did when I was younger)

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  • I find that my stomach size means I should be a large but I find xl a better fit but it’s too baggy which is fine for plain clothes but annoys me wirh ones that have  a design I like(which now that im trying to be more expressive is most of my clothes ro the point I want to buy a Kurt cobain style black and green striped shirt agin like I did when I was younger)

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