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Police were abrupt

NAS94192
3 months ago

Hi I care for my adult son with autism and schizophrenia, a police officer came and asked me a lot of rapid questions as my son knocked twice at window and doors , of a nearby house he always says a phrase, Jesus died for our sins then leaves. 

Since last year his symptoms have decreased but going out he will likely still do this, many are understanding but this person called police. I felt almost intimidated and they didn't even ask to speak to my son. I opened his door and spoke to him.  I explained he is waiting for a next clinic appointment anytime now.  They even asked if we have a social worker, I wasn't happy that they were abrupt and didn't give me time to think very well.  If they spoke to my son that way he would have clammed up or got confused/upset. I offered to apologise the person who complained but they said its not necessary.  

I felt there was no empathy or respect, and I was only asked my surname not first. 

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  • 3 months ago

    Yes it does sound as though they were rude and not understanding or empathetic. They may have asked about a social worker as they're trying to move away from being the service of last resort for people with issues that are not criminal, but often mental health related. This still does not excuse the general manner with which they dealt with you though. DO you know the neighbour who complained? They may have mental health or other issues too and were really scared?

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  • 3 months ago

    Yes it does sound as though they were rude and not understanding or empathetic. They may have asked about a social worker as they're trying to move away from being the service of last resort for people with issues that are not criminal, but often mental health related. This still does not excuse the general manner with which they dealt with you though. DO you know the neighbour who complained? They may have mental health or other issues too and were really scared?

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