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Loneliness is scary, please help

Jakey

I recently got into a relationship which lasted 3 days, I was asked out but then an assumption was made against me and they broke up.

I felt affection for the first time ever, and immediately lifted me out of my low mood state, and even lessened how bad it usually feels. But I'm alone again with nobody to talk to, I'm so lonely I got out a plush toy I had from the wardrobe. The worst thing is I can't necessarily communicate because I turn minimally/non-verbal in social situations, and people have the expectation that I need to be communicative and positive

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  • Well it seems possible that the catalyst for the relationship may have been the trouble you experiences a few days ago, if that is the case then the threatened-and-distressed state you were in may have been the motivating-factor of your other half, so perhaps it is best that that relationship didn’t last when considering what it would have taken to hold their interest. 
    Having said that I pity you your sorrow, it will pass and you didn’t need a crutch like that in your life and a constant reminder of trauma, I hope you find this somewhat reassuring and continue your interest and meet someone who loves you on that basis..:)

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  • Well it seems possible that the catalyst for the relationship may have been the trouble you experiences a few days ago, if that is the case then the threatened-and-distressed state you were in may have been the motivating-factor of your other half, so perhaps it is best that that relationship didn’t last when considering what it would have taken to hold their interest. 
    Having said that I pity you your sorrow, it will pass and you didn’t need a crutch like that in your life and a constant reminder of trauma, I hope you find this somewhat reassuring and continue your interest and meet someone who loves you on that basis..:)

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