I need help

I apply for PIP a few months ago, and I received it without much hassle, I have a line that I took with the process but I did not plan for it as such. 
Autism is ultimately a neurological condition, so the correct line to take in application is to help the reviewer to see that you are not seeking PIP for reasons of stress and moodiness in daily-life, but the help the review see that you have a spared-cognition that has meant that there is inequality in not having PIP. 
I highlighted how display the aspects of the triad-of-impairment, I highlighted how I have restrictive-and-repetitive-behaviours, I highlighted how I display sensory-anomalies and sensory-processing issues. 
At no point did I seek to make an emotional-argument, where I used autism-related jargon, as I pointed out the features of my difficulties. I made it quite clear that I was not seeking to degrade myself, but that I was trying to seek remedy to a inequality as a result of disability, I was seeking fairness in my pursuit of independence.
I used the citizens advice examples to format the points I was making, I only made a point in the name of highlight a severity or frequency of a difficulty. I only used any manifested-behaviour or psychological-issue or developmental-issue to describe the knock-on effect of my neurological-aspects of autism.
I hope this helps, if you need a more specific prompt, please state it and I creepily as best as I can. 

It has been about 3 years or so since I last applied, but they said to explain what it's like on the worst days of my life, which I thought I explained well backed up with the evidence last time. But it seemed they just glanced over it and ignored everything I said and just denied it straight away. 

I didnt have any other notes from anyone else though at the time as I had no external help with the claim and process as I explained in the application as I don't have any kind of support network. Even my own family wouldn't help me with the application or write letters to help. 

They even stated in the rejection letter that I have an extensive knowledge about autism and how it effects me...and that just was like a "well yeah? I live with this day to day? But i understand that i have difficulty explaining in detail what difficulties i have, as ive been told for all of my life that everyone has this difficulty,  but i just seem to experience it at 1000% rather than "normal" " 

It was all very confusing and frustrating to be treated like I was making it all up.

Sophie said:

i understand that i have difficulty explaining in detail what difficulties i have

I wonder if what we need on the forum is someone who can coach people in the situation like Sophie found herself in - get her familiar with articulating the issues and asseting the reasons for the need for a PIP.

Even the response letter could be challenged so having a template could be useful.

Any thoughs?

Sophie said:

i understand that i have difficulty explaining in detail what difficulties i have

I wonder if what we need on the forum is someone who can coach people in the situation like Sophie found herself in - get her familiar with articulating the issues and asseting the reasons for the need for a PIP.

Even the response letter could be challenged so having a template could be useful.

Any thoughs?

Hi Iain there is already this page: 

https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/benefits/sick-or-disabled-people-and-carers/pip/help-with-your-claim/fill-in-form-pip/

That goes through step by step and gives really detailed info on how to fill out the form. This i what I intend to use when I fill in my application. 

I hope it helps!