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Am I just not good enough?

Lauren (she/her)

So I've lost many friends over the past few years and fell out with a lot of people due to not being able to read facially expressions very well or notice when a mood has changed. I was diagnosed back in 2016 but it seems to be affecting every aspect of my life very recently. I have university work to be doing and hobbies to keep my mind off of this, but I'm finding it really hard and feel I have no friends anymore. I've been told I'm annoying, and have been bullied in the past so I take things to heart when I probably shouldn't. Can anyone help with this advice wise or has been in similar situations to myself? 

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  • advice from people with similar problems probably isnt going to fix things lol

    best thing is though, if they are the type of friend to abandon you they are not your friend anyway and they are not worth your time.... consider it that they filtered themselves out and they are the problem.

    i had a friend that filtered himself out... i was bullied alot by everyone and my friend one day said he can no longer be friends or hang out with me because i attract too many bullies and he gets some of the splashback on him from that too... he filtered himself out.... a true friend would be there for you and wouldnt abandon you in hard times. a friend that abandons you is no friend at all, we are both better off without these shallow friends. they are not even up to their own ideals of what they would see themselves as, i bet all these normies see themselves as stern and strong and never leave a man behind and believe in the power of friendship!! but yet in reality they all ditch their mates at the first sigh of trouble all for their own self preservation lol ....the problem isnt you... the problem is them...

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  • advice from people with similar problems probably isnt going to fix things lol

    best thing is though, if they are the type of friend to abandon you they are not your friend anyway and they are not worth your time.... consider it that they filtered themselves out and they are the problem.

    i had a friend that filtered himself out... i was bullied alot by everyone and my friend one day said he can no longer be friends or hang out with me because i attract too many bullies and he gets some of the splashback on him from that too... he filtered himself out.... a true friend would be there for you and wouldnt abandon you in hard times. a friend that abandons you is no friend at all, we are both better off without these shallow friends. they are not even up to their own ideals of what they would see themselves as, i bet all these normies see themselves as stern and strong and never leave a man behind and believe in the power of friendship!! but yet in reality they all ditch their mates at the first sigh of trouble all for their own self preservation lol ....the problem isnt you... the problem is them...

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