Kicking Myself (not literally)

On Thursday morning I had been due to attend a face-to-face appointment at my surgery, which I'd booked approximately 3 weeks ago. As seems to be par for the course these days, I had spent Wednesday night unable to sleep, mainly due to menopausal symptoms (hot flushes and sweats) keeping me awake. I could remember looking at the time on my clock, aware that I would soon need to start getting ready for my appointment. 

Much to my horror, I then realise that it's several hours later and I've missed my surgery appointment, which had actually been to discuss getting started on HRT. Lack of sleep had clearly caught up with me. I felt so annoyed with myself and frustrated that I would have to go through the process of booking another appointment. This then resulted in a tension headache.

A while later, I then discovered that there had been a phone call from my surgery while I had been asleep. The phone had been all of about a foot away from me, but I had obviously been in such a deep sleep that I had been oblivious to the sound of it ringing. Anyway, as if I wasn't already feeling bad enough about having missed my appointment, I later discovered that my surgery had e-mailed me too, with what can best be described as a politely worded telling off. It was fair enough.

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  • I got a strongly worded letter saying I was VERY OVERDUE for a smear test.  Don't they realise how hard it is for me to phone?  And then when I did, they said they had no appointments available and would call me when one was free. Why not just send me an appointment in the first place?

    Anyway, finally got booked in, left the house with time to spare but was so stressed about it that I got lost on the way and was 5 minutes late. The receptionist glared at me and almost didn't let me in, but I apologised and pleaded and she let me through. Was all a bit rushed but it was a horrible, horrible experience. 

    So I feel your pain. Do explain what happened because that's really out of your control and you don't deserve to be chastised for it.

  • I feel your pain too, and am sorry your experience was so horrible and anxiety-inducing for you.

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