Anxiety Issue

Just wondering if anyone else has trouble with this.

I’m not going to pretend I understand my situation extremely well or can quote exactly what it is that I am dealing with, but it is something that I’ve been struggling with for a few months now.

For context, I ended an extremely toxic (four year long) relationship about 8 months ago, slowly making strides to get over it. One of the things I’ve noticed lately aside from my general anxiety and panic attacks, is that whenever I’m in a certain place we used to be back at my hometown, (even though she’s nowhere to be found) I still get extremely anxious and fidgety.

It’s just a tad concerning. It’s not like on the level of a panic attack or anything, but it’s a general feeling of insecurity and fear. Just wondering if for one thing, anyone has dealt with a problem like this recently, And for another, if there are any tips to help lessen or be rid of it.

God Bless.

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  • Hiya,

    sounds like your unconscious brain is expecting to see her and making you feel anxious. I have had similar experiences. i worked through it by facing it. for example, if you do bump into her what's the worst that can happen? plan what you would say... and then you are prepared.

    Alisha xx

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  • Hiya,

    sounds like your unconscious brain is expecting to see her and making you feel anxious. I have had similar experiences. i worked through it by facing it. for example, if you do bump into her what's the worst that can happen? plan what you would say... and then you are prepared.

    Alisha xx

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