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2 NDs in a bed? Recipe for success or disaster. Dating.

tophatstomper

I would like to find another girlfriend and be in love again. This has made me think of finding and hoping to date someone with similar issues and problems

I have never dated someone with similar issues or someone ND, but I met someone a long time ago who I really got along with and was ND and thought to myself - I could date this woman but I was taken for so not interested at the time.

I have been thinking about it and it could potentially be wonderful, we would help one another and have a good idea of why they behave the way they do.

But, I also think 'chain reactions' and nuclear explosions.

I would like to know from other people if this is a good idea or not?

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  • Myself and my husband are autistic, and my son and his girlfriend are both neurodivergent. My relationship with my husband works brilliantly on almost every level in terms of how we get on. We’re so alike. The only problems arise as a result of our ‘weaknesses’ such as poor organisational skills etc. We really struggle to deal with many aspects of life in terms of the outside world. We’ve sometimes wondered if we’d have done better practically and financially etc with a neurotypical partner - but then we would not have got on so well with someone like that in the way we do with each other - as we are so ‘in tune’ with each other. No relationship is perfect - you have to accept that really. The main thing is that the other person makes you happy and that you enjoy their company - my husband is my best friend (along with my children). 

  • in reply to Kate Kestrel

    I'm glad to hear that. It sounds like a nice marriage.

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