ADHD partner

Morning all.

I am diagnosed with Asperger's which explains some of the difficulties me and my partner of 20 years have had.

We now find that she has ADHD. This seems to explain even more about our difficulties over the years.

Is there anyone else on the forum that has an ADHD partner?

How do you find the relationship between you. Is it turbulent or have you found any interesting ways to make it work? Or have you found it easier to jack it in?

Dave