3 Year old boy, Possible Autism and ADHD

Hi there, My names Victoria and I have a 3 year old boy who's being tested for Autism and ADHD. I'm looking to make new friends as I find it so hard to mix with other mums when their kids are not like mine. I'm also 4 months pregnant, so stress and hormones are really making me feel low at the moment and I could really do with someone to talk to thats on the same level as me.