hi newly diagnosed son

Hi I have a 5& half year old son who since year 1 had been exc,uded 6/7 times the school got us a hospital refereal and we had our first paeds app thurs the deputy head also his class teacher come along with us and the consultant diagnosed him with asd, adhd and anxiety it was a strange feelong as I wasn't expecting a diagnosis I felt relieved happy scared worried I'm looking for websites or any ideas to help with days out we also have a 7&1year old so unforunately caleb can't always have our fullattention and we wordy he wanders or runs off