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New Here and Don't have an official diagnosis

DafyddKear

Hey everyone, I'm new to this website/forum and just want to introduce myself. I don't have an official autism diagnosis, more depression and crippling social anxiety, but I seem to fit many of the criteria for autism and my younger brother and father are both autistic so I likely am as well.

I am a 27 year old man with no friends, no social life and no job and I still live with my parents, so making friends is a bit difficult for me. I struggle with self confidence issues but would like to begin making friends, even if they are online for now.

My family are helpful and supportive, but I am a romantic at heart and would desperately like a girlfriend and wife, something my autism and self confidence issues don't help with. I am here to start socialising in a secure environment as a start on this road.

My interests would probably be considered stereotypical for autistic men, being video games, reading, trains (particularly steam), model railways and history.

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  • Hello DafyddKear,

    wellcome to the Community. I too, enjoy reading and have a interest in railways and driving trains on Train Sim. I enjoyed a trip down to the Gloucestershire and Warwickshire diesel gala in July as well as a relaced running day at the Great Central. I got to ride behind a Hymek for the first time and had fun. Class 37 sounded wonderful too.

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  • Hello DafyddKear,

    wellcome to the Community. I too, enjoy reading and have a interest in railways and driving trains on Train Sim. I enjoyed a trip down to the Gloucestershire and Warwickshire diesel gala in July as well as a relaced running day at the Great Central. I got to ride behind a Hymek for the first time and had fun. Class 37 sounded wonderful too.

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  • in reply to LucyLandRover

    Hi, nice to meet you. Thanks for the welcome. 

    I enjoy Train Sim games as well, particularly Train Sim World Classic, simply because of the number of steam engines available on the game. I've been to many heritage railways this year, I was at the West Somerset Steam Weekend a few weeks ago which was fun. I do like the soft purr or the full throated roar of a diesel, but nothing can beat the steady bark and chuff of a steam engine in my mind.