Buenas dias

Or, good day!

I am a recently diagnosed level 1 autistic British man, 69 years old, retired, and living in southern Spain in a very rural community away from the madding crowds.

Until a few years ago, autism was something other people had.  Me?  I am just slightly weird!  But, but, but.....  I'd served in the military, worked in electronics, and specialised in security systems.  Ran my own business and eventually ended up working in an approvals laboratory before taking early retirement.  During all of that, I managed to get married, divorced, and married again.  At the age of 56, I even managed to acquire a master's degree!!  So, no, I never felt that I had any sort of definable problem, just that I did not fit in.  Perhaps I should have paid more attention, as my life and career path were certainly not 'normal', and I am aware that using the word normal is fraught.

So here we are, diagnosed and getting to grips with what that means.  For the last few weeks, I have been slowly learning more about autism and me, and I know that that journey still has a long way to run.

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  • Hola Iago, I hope you like it here, lots of chats to join in with and learn all about what it means to be autistic…. I am also late diagnosed in my early 50s, but the signs were always there.

  • Greetings!

    I love your moniker, what a great name!  :-)

    After spending a month within my head trying to make sense of the diagnosis coupled with reading a lot of stuff from the web (I know, I know, probably 95% poor quality, but you have to start somewhere) it was obvious that I needed to meet others with similar lived experience to help me get to grips with it.

    So, thank you for your kind words, I shall keep an eye open for you in the forums in the future.

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  • Greetings!

    I love your moniker, what a great name!  :-)

    After spending a month within my head trying to make sense of the diagnosis coupled with reading a lot of stuff from the web (I know, I know, probably 95% poor quality, but you have to start somewhere) it was obvious that I needed to meet others with similar lived experience to help me get to grips with it.

    So, thank you for your kind words, I shall keep an eye open for you in the forums in the future.

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