Buenas dias

Or, good day!

I am a recently diagnosed level 1 autistic British man, 69 years old, retired, and living in southern Spain in a very rural community away from the madding crowds.

Until a few years ago, autism was something other people had.  Me?  I am just slightly weird!  But, but, but.....  I'd served in the military, worked in electronics, and specialised in security systems.  Ran my own business and eventually ended up working in an approvals laboratory before taking early retirement.  During all of that, I managed to get married, divorced, and married again.  At the age of 56, I even managed to acquire a master's degree!!  So, no, I never felt that I had any sort of definable problem, just that I did not fit in.  Perhaps I should have paid more attention, as my life and career path were certainly not 'normal', and I am aware that using the word normal is fraught.

So here we are, diagnosed and getting to grips with what that means.  For the last few weeks, I have been slowly learning more about autism and me, and I know that that journey still has a long way to run.

Parents
  • Hi Iago and welcome, 

    Yours is a rather similar story from me. In my early 70's, diagnosed this year as autistic, a quirky and multi-job career with frequent periods of burnout in between. I too, am still coming to terms with my diagnosis. However, I am a lot more relaxed and contented now.   

    I hope you enjoy your time here.

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  • Hi Iago and welcome, 

    Yours is a rather similar story from me. In my early 70's, diagnosed this year as autistic, a quirky and multi-job career with frequent periods of burnout in between. I too, am still coming to terms with my diagnosis. However, I am a lot more relaxed and contented now.   

    I hope you enjoy your time here.

Children
  • Afternoon Oscar,

    It's too soon to say whether getting a late diagnosis is a good or bad thing I think.  I've rapidly moved away from worrying about the 'what ifs' it seems a rather pointless exercise.  I have been a deal calmer since getting diagnosed, and wonder if that is usual?  It certainly seems that there is a reason for my quirks, and I don't need to indulge them now.

    As for the NAS?  This is all new ground and my experience of autistic people has been limited to a handful of either very challenging individuals with huge problems they struggled with and a couple of 'out' and proud autistic folk.  So, I have no idea where this is going to lead, but I do hope it to be a chance to learn more from others who are dealing with the same issues as me.

    Thanks for taking the time to reply.