hello, not sure where to start and not sure if I'm putting this in right place, I'm in a relationship where my gf has a 4 year old whom has developed a few things since we have been together, I know from when me and his mother first got together he was a liverly child but since we got our own place he has become rather more than liverly, if you discipline him as in put him on the naughty step he screams in your face, shouts at you saying 'I hate you' yea this all sounds like a normal 4 year old but if you try and talk to him face to face he wants look at you he moves his head about side to side and has no eye contact, he also gets into right states where he will throw himself about , and resently has started to hit out. also on a different note when he plays with his trains if things don't go his way he shouts at it and gets really angry with it, also he lines his toys up in neat little lines. im frustrated as a step dad please help.
