Hi all

I'm a 58 year old man and have always been a bit odd.  I always thought it was normal. I might be getting worse and seem to be getting more isolated.  Virtually the only person who ever calls me is my Mum.  And sometimes my daughter who I am very close to.  I live and work abroad, am long since divorced and what friends I do have in the UK are gradually slipping away due to absence.  I don't mind too much.  I always found making friends pretty difficult and now go on pretty fancy hols etc on my own.  Mostly I like it and prefer it to being with other people all the time, but it can get lonely as well.  I don't get on very well with some of the the people I work with either but don't care too much except that I don't want to create an atmosphere.  I've never been diagnosed but took a couple of Aspergers tests online and came up borderline in both.  Mostly I get by OK and won't be bothering the doctor any time soon, but the situation is hard to manage sometimes.  Do I have an ASD or not?  Who knows, but it seems a bit likely and it would explain a lot.  My friends son has a pretty bad ASD/probable Aspergers and he is way more difficult than me, so mustn't grumble.  Anyway.  That's me.  So Hi and goodbye for now.

Posted this in the wrong place to start with so am trying again.