Hi there, 50s, maybe autistic and trying to help my son who I think is and is struggling

Hi there,

Started all this as feel confident that my 7 year old son is ADHD and Autistic and is struggling in many ways, particularly school and friendships. So my main aim is to help on path to a diagnosis and to then get a better understanding of what support we as a family can give him. He's a sweet sensitive chap but feels low esteem and can often get disregulated and I want help him cope better.

In doing this I feel like I may also be autistic and have masked for many years. I did an online assessment for whatever that's worth, but it also makes sense of how I've felt a lot of my life. I feel I've coped fairly well but I find it's helpful to understand myself and my needs and to feel less guilty about the ways I feel different. But I feel like I have coped well, but I'm here to mainly help my son who definitely needs more help, but he just about copes at school whereas others needs are more visible 

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  • Hi BleP,

    Thank you for reaching out to our online community and welcome to the forum.

    Our website has a diagnosis hub, this includes information, practical and multimedia resources to support autistic people and their families before during and after diagnosis.

    You may want to visit the other resources on our website, we have advice and guidance on a wide range of information about autism, socialising and relationships, communication and education: https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance

    You can try searching on our Autism Services Directory for diagnostic services in your local area.  The Directory also includes listings for support and social groups for autistic people, their families and friends.

    I hope you find this helpful.

     

    Rishma Mod

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  • Hi BleP,

    Thank you for reaching out to our online community and welcome to the forum.

    Our website has a diagnosis hub, this includes information, practical and multimedia resources to support autistic people and their families before during and after diagnosis.

    You may want to visit the other resources on our website, we have advice and guidance on a wide range of information about autism, socialising and relationships, communication and education: https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance

    You can try searching on our Autism Services Directory for diagnostic services in your local area.  The Directory also includes listings for support and social groups for autistic people, their families and friends.

    I hope you find this helpful.

     

    Rishma Mod

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