Hi skeet20, hope you can enjoy joing in the chat. You can just drop in whereever you need, if you want to talk about the overwhelm (very common here!), or you want a place to not worry and talk about other things, it can help!
Yeah, though it's a little more complicated as by default it's set to friend only to give you a little protection. A lot of people just use the open forums, though you can either friend people, or you can change your own settings to allow people to message if you want that.
