Late diagnosed Level One Autistic at 45 years old

Hello!

I am 45 and started to suspect/wonder if I’m autistic over the last couple of years, but took my suspicions and wondering more seriously this last year.  I decided to be assessed and have been diagnosed as level one autistic.

I think somehow entering menopause made me see the autistic traits I have and have always had.  I just didn’t know these traits I have were autistic traits until recently.  

Once I realized I’m autistic (even before official diagnosis), I suddenly had a new self-compassion and understanding I’ve never had before!  My internal dialogue completely changed and that’s been amazing to me. (I was pretty hard on myself my whole life, but that seems to be over!)

I don’t have friends, per se - my family are my friends, and I’m friendly with people I work with at part time job. 

I thought I’d try to socialize more in an online community for autistic individuals.  Just hoping for some fun, friendly chats.

Looking forward to chatting with y’all

Cheers!

Daiseegurl

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  • Hello and thank you!  I never knew the lack of friendships and trouble maintaining friendships was an autistic trait until I started suspecting I was autistic and researched more about autism.  I just thought it was a “me” problem.  
    I‘m glad I joined this community!  Everyone’s been so lovely!