Hello

Hello!

I am new to the community and recently diagnosed autistic, aged 20, after having suspected it for eight years!

I found the diagnostic process quite distressing and wondered if anyone else had had a similar experience. If so, how did you manage this? I feel as though I'm suddenly more aware of all the 'deficits' I have.

I don't really know what to do now I have the diagnosis. Do I disclose to my employer/university? I've managed pretty well so far thanks to help from my family and carefully managing my routines to avoid burnout, and I am worried that disclosing the diagnosis will be met with stigma rather than support.

My apprenticeship is my biggest interest at the moment, but I'm starting to struggle to balance everything. It's been great in that this route allowed me to avoid the university lifestyle, which I don't think I would have coped with, and entering the workplace young has seemingly worked in my favour, as coming across a bit odd is more expected for us youths. However, the workload and social/sensory aspects are becoming difficult, so any advice is appreciated.

Anyway, I'm looking forward to being part of the community and finding some like-minded people.

Parents
  • Welcome to the community! You don't have to disclose your diagnosis and it's up to you. In many situations it's better to be careful with it, especially at work. It depends also if you need adjustments. From my experience I can say I had my reasonable adjustments at work even long before I knew about autism. Ijust had a need and communicated with tge management. Now I also have my adjustments despite not being officially diagnosed, only suspected. I wish you find here like minded people and support.

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  • Welcome to the community! You don't have to disclose your diagnosis and it's up to you. In many situations it's better to be careful with it, especially at work. It depends also if you need adjustments. From my experience I can say I had my reasonable adjustments at work even long before I knew about autism. Ijust had a need and communicated with tge management. Now I also have my adjustments despite not being officially diagnosed, only suspected. I wish you find here like minded people and support.

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