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Blessedarethecheesemakers

Being in denial of my autistic nature and spending 40 yrs, 8 of which since knowing. I’m making first attempts of social connection and willingness to look back and acknowledge the real me. Currently spending time under section as my chronic depression and anxiety took a turn a downward turn. 
so, the question is. How do you make friends?  (My friend group totals 1 person). 

  • in reply to Lonehare12

    Well said,   And when you make one more friend that's a 100% increase. I find that friendship sort of emerges from finding things in common with someone and, over time, sharing experiences and building trust. It helps sometimes to keep the pressure off yourself and just see what happens. This community will help. The more you can accept and have compassion for yourself, the easier things will get. Take good care and hope you feel better before long.

  • Oh I think you might like cheese.

    Or is it the name of a band or something 

    Anyway I love cheese too

    Blush

  • Hi 

    Thank you for sharing. I’m sorry to hear you are having a tough time.

    It’s tough looking back and accepting who we are…taking the mask off a little… but it will become easier as we find people who are willing to accept and understand us. You’ve found the right place to start, I also meet with an autistic group a couple of times a month to do various activities. I find these spaces more gentle and forgiving.

    You have one friend already which is good. 

    Keep taking small steps.

    You are not alone

    Sending warm wishes your way