Hi everyone this might be long and a bit confusing but I'll try my best to explain clearly.
My 15 year old daughter refuses to go to school it can be for many reason she hasn't slept (she doesn't sleep well) she doesn't feel well (being sick diarrhea had her to doctors multiple times had test they put it down to anxiety) we self referred to CHAMNS was told her anxiety stems from Autism and ADHD at that isn't something they deal with.
Had meeting after meeting with school or told time and time again she was put onto that week's inclusion meeting.
My daughter isn't diagnosed due to the school which they have taken responsibility for they lost our daughters referral forms 3 times and the 4th we was told we was on the waiting list we waited 18mnths to then be told that no form were ever submitted to paediatrics. This person doesn't work at the school any longer but that's 4 and half years of not being on the waiting list now the forms have been sent in.
So over the past 4 years I've reached out to everyone asking for help her GP for her sleeping issues he gave her antihistamines because she was under 16 he couldn't give her anything else they didn't work we went back and was told he couldn't help further she needs secondary care.
School we have meetings they set plans to supposedly help like a late pass a bridge pass that she tells me she gets scrutinized for using. All teachers made aware she doesn't like to move seats but they proceed to move everyone around her so makes that plan useless. So she tries for a few days but comes home absolutely broken where we get the crying the stiming and the sleepless nights then the refusal of going to school because it's all too much.
It's like rinse and repeat for the past 4 years.
They had a TAZ meeting in November about all this and nothings changed all today I've been chasing things up with her support worker but he's that over worked he hasn't chased things up himself and forgot to send me any information on help and support like they suggested.
What can I do from here? I feel like I'm drowning.