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Seeing Myself Through My Son's Eyes

Loz

My name’s Loz and I’m in my 30s. All my life, I’ve felt different, and recently my GP suggested that I may be neurodivergent — specifically ASD and ADHD. In some ways, that suggestion came as a relief because the number of traits I relate to is honestly ridiculous! But it’s also brought a lot of reflection and frustration when I think back on how much I struggled through life(and continue to), especially during school.

I’m also a mum to a wonderful 11-year-old son who I absolutely adore. He was recently diagnosed with ASD(finally!), and ADHD is currently under review. His journey has played a massive part in helping me better understand myself, too.

I’m really looking forward to connecting with everyone. It will be nice to share with people who understand and learn from everyone’s experiences here. Blush

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  • Hello Loz

    Welcome to the Online Community.

    It's great that your son has received a diagnosis, I know that takes a lot of effort and I hope it helps him to have the understanding and support he needs. And many parents have learned about their own neurodivergence as their child has gone through the assessment process. You're not alone in feeling frustrated at years of struggle that could have been avoided or at least lessened. 

    There might be information in our Before diagnosis pages that is useful for you.

    I hope you find the community a supportive and kind space.

    Kind regards

    Sharon Mod

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  • Hello Loz

    Welcome to the Online Community.

    It's great that your son has received a diagnosis, I know that takes a lot of effort and I hope it helps him to have the understanding and support he needs. And many parents have learned about their own neurodivergence as their child has gone through the assessment process. You're not alone in feeling frustrated at years of struggle that could have been avoided or at least lessened. 

    There might be information in our Before diagnosis pages that is useful for you.

    I hope you find the community a supportive and kind space.

    Kind regards

    Sharon Mod

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