Hi from the burnout bunker!

I’m Radgie—writer, storyteller, systems enthusiast, and currently operating at about 40% battery, mostly thanks to peach iced tea, poetry drafts, and the occasional existential crisis.

I was diagnosed autistic in adulthood (at 46 just three months ago), which explained a lot: my love of structure, my aversion to fluorescent lighting, and my tendency to treat small talk like a boss fight.

Until recently, I was an assistant manager at an autism specialist college—a role I cared deeply about, but one that eventually asked more than I could sustainably give. I’ve stepped down to a tutor role to protect my regulation and wellbeing, but I’ll be honest: I’m still deep in the burnout woods, trying to navigate with a compass made of metaphors and caffeine.

I’m here to reconnect with the parts of myself that don’t revolve around crisis management or masking. I love creative writing (especially poetry and sensory-rich fiction), vocal storytelling, and building low-pressure, neurodivergent-friendly routines. I’m also slowly working on a portfolio site and a storytelling channel—gently, at my own pace, and with full permission to pause.

If you’re navigating burnout, late diagnosis, or want to chat about writing, advocacy, or the strange comfort of existential humour, I’d love to connect.

I’m not always quick to reply (executive function is a fickle beast), but I’m always glad to be here.

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  • Welcome to the forum!

    Sounds like you were or are a teacher of some sort? I was a music professor for ten years, so I can understand if the burnout is stemming a bit from the ever-changing landscape of the education field. I’m also interested in writing, but my writing is kind of weird lol. I write novels/novellas that have a structure that is inspired by stage scripts. I also usually do fantasy horror.

    Also peach iced tea is a good pick. I‘m surviving on a good weekly frozen peach margarita right now Joy

  • Hi profdanger,

    I am indeed a tutor and I teach SEND. I am currently employed in an Autism specialist college for adults. I have mainly taught Digital Media and Functional Skills English. The SEND field of education changes so quickly and there is so much more paperwork to do as well. I was an assistant manager up until this month but 'decided' to step down due to the 'additional pressures' with my reasonable adjustment requests.

    It is what it is but I am looking at setting up my own business instead so I can be as flexible as I need to. 

    Your writing sounds fascinating as I have a background in performing arts and drama too. You also have me craving a peach margarita now as well. 

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  • Hi profdanger,

    I am indeed a tutor and I teach SEND. I am currently employed in an Autism specialist college for adults. I have mainly taught Digital Media and Functional Skills English. The SEND field of education changes so quickly and there is so much more paperwork to do as well. I was an assistant manager up until this month but 'decided' to step down due to the 'additional pressures' with my reasonable adjustment requests.

    It is what it is but I am looking at setting up my own business instead so I can be as flexible as I need to. 

    Your writing sounds fascinating as I have a background in performing arts and drama too. You also have me craving a peach margarita now as well. 

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