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doodles7

Hi, I'm new to this forum and am still learning how it works.

I have Aspergers and have found that since my diagnosis which was three years ago, I have had no support. I finally managed to get a job early last year and passed my driving test last August so now I am focusing on my social life.

I have two friends who don't have Aspergers and would like to meet more people like me. I'm hoping this site will at least allow me to talk to other people who have Aspergers.

I recently tried a social group near me but found that it wasn't for me, especially since I felt I was on a different level of Aspergers to the other people in the group. Although I find it hard to socialise, my Aspergers is actually mild.

It would great to hear from anyone who fancies a chat Smile

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  • Hi

    Thanks for replying Longman Smile My lack of a social life has been getting me down recently and it's nice that you have taken the time to reply.

    Yeah I agree there are a lot of variations and levels of Aspergers. My mum is constantly picking up on my traits such as having specific interests and I get anxious when things change although I'l admit I'm not as bad as I used to be.

    At school my anxiety levels used to hit the roof and I was very shy and quiet, a lot of kids picked up on that and no one understood me so I didn't really talk a lot. I didn't bother socialising, especially as I found it hard to start conversations and keep them going. 

    When I was a kid, I used to spend most of my time in my room. Many people that came to our house picked up on that but no one ever guessed that I had Aspergers, they just got used to me being like that.

    When I say mild, I mean more in the social way. I am able to look people in the eye when I talk to them although I'll admit I used to find that very difficult. I think that after I left school and went through different jobs and courses, I started to come out of my shell more and despite still being very shy, I find it easier to talk to people even if I just say hello, something else I  used to find really hard. 

    I work at a kennels so I don't get to speak to a lot of people apart from my boss and two other kennel assistants. I try not to let the socialisation get me down but now that I am 21, I really would like to make more friends and get out more. I would like to meet more people like me, even if they don't have Aspergers, who have similar interests.

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  • Hi

    Thanks for replying Longman Smile My lack of a social life has been getting me down recently and it's nice that you have taken the time to reply.

    Yeah I agree there are a lot of variations and levels of Aspergers. My mum is constantly picking up on my traits such as having specific interests and I get anxious when things change although I'l admit I'm not as bad as I used to be.

    At school my anxiety levels used to hit the roof and I was very shy and quiet, a lot of kids picked up on that and no one understood me so I didn't really talk a lot. I didn't bother socialising, especially as I found it hard to start conversations and keep them going. 

    When I was a kid, I used to spend most of my time in my room. Many people that came to our house picked up on that but no one ever guessed that I had Aspergers, they just got used to me being like that.

    When I say mild, I mean more in the social way. I am able to look people in the eye when I talk to them although I'll admit I used to find that very difficult. I think that after I left school and went through different jobs and courses, I started to come out of my shell more and despite still being very shy, I find it easier to talk to people even if I just say hello, something else I  used to find really hard. 

    I work at a kennels so I don't get to speak to a lot of people apart from my boss and two other kennel assistants. I try not to let the socialisation get me down but now that I am 21, I really would like to make more friends and get out more. I would like to meet more people like me, even if they don't have Aspergers, who have similar interests.

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