- Hello im jake. I am waiting for my diagnosis to hapoen but by the sounds of it ill be waiting a few years. Was wondering if its ok for me to use this site and its not seen as offensive and all that. Ive read books on autism and it i relate to alot of it. Anyways cheers to anyone who does read this, the idea of being in a community that helps with this confussing thing we call autism soungs great