Published on 12, July, 2020
Is it worth getting diagnosed at 68 yrs old? I no longer work - thankfully. Although, after suffering my 3rd marriage failure and many other issues, I am feeling that I need support. I have never asked for support because 1. I didn't know I was autistic, 2. Pride - at feeling inadequate and I should be able to do everything myself, 3. Shame and embarrassment for not feeling able to cope - something I have struggled with all my life. As I get older I am not as resilient and feel like my life is almost over. I am currently trying to get an old age bungalow which is in very short supply in North Lincolnshire. But I would like to know if I am autistic even it is just for my peace of mind.
I am awaiting a diagnosis. I am 60. Like you i have struggled most of my life. It seems to get harder the older i get. I hope in time, the support will be there for those of us that need it in later life. Be hopeful. Yes, a diagnosis will likely provide you with the validation and understanding of yourself.
I hope as i age i dont get misdiagnised with dementia because im autistic. X