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Another newbie, hello all!!!

MN1980

Hi there

Im new round here so go easy on me.

Hope everyone is okay.

My little lad who is 7 has just been diagnosed with having Autistic Spectrum Disorder,

although we are not surprised as we thought as much but have had to wait nearly two years for an appointment to be assessed.

Me and my wife are quite relieved that there seems to be an answer to it all but a bit upset that it is another thing my son has to deal with along with having spastic diplegia cerebral palsy.

A question we would like other peoples opinions on is do we tell him about it?

My first thought was no, as he is likely to use it as an excuse now and again but on the other hand it may give him answers as to why he is a bit different and does some of the stuff he does....

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  • Hi - As PP says, as a parent youre the expert as far as your own child is concerned and it has to be your call. For me, I would never even think of not telling my son about it - because it is an intrinsic part of who he is and not something to be hidden or anything "bad" - Its not really something he can use as an excuse - however it does give valid reasons and further understandings for some of his actions and reactions that are so obviously different to many other children - if that makes sense? 

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  • Hi - As PP says, as a parent youre the expert as far as your own child is concerned and it has to be your call. For me, I would never even think of not telling my son about it - because it is an intrinsic part of who he is and not something to be hidden or anything "bad" - Its not really something he can use as an excuse - however it does give valid reasons and further understandings for some of his actions and reactions that are so obviously different to many other children - if that makes sense? 

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