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Hello world!

CarolineK

Hello all

I'm a 50-much-plus woman who has always felt disconnected from others and never having (or wanting) friends. I finally self-diagnosed myself with Asperger's at 50, after trying to work out why I  becoming increasingly socially disabled. I'm happy now that I'm not alone, and have been able to come out to my managers at work, my brother & my chldren, who can now understand and accept why I will find any excuse to avoid (or at least minimise) social situations.

Still don't know how to address this wider (e.g. work team, strangers on public transport etc), as I still get into trouble by saying the wrong things or (over)reacting to noise/smells/lights/touch. Has anyone any useful tips? 

I'm glad I found this site & forum. It makes me feel part of community of sorts where I'm not expected to meet up and socialise.

  • i wish i could offer advice but i have been in a similar situation for so long myself.

    i am very lucky to have a very supportive wife and family, and my recent diagnosis has made my odd behaviour easier for them to understand.

    the crowd at work are pretty good too, i'm lucky there that i am good at my job, it suits me on all levels.

    so, sorry unable to give advice but am willing to be as supportive as i can.

    rob

    i am new here too!