This is difficult

Hello

I'm 56. Recently diagnosed. My life is not a life. Total mess. I 'live' in isolation.

On Monday I am going to court because I am too poor to pay council tax. This is destroying me. They will not listen to me, I am struggling to do accounts in the time they demanded. I've had enough. I fear will be homeless soon.

I fought against the diagnosis. I'm devastated that I now know I will never be what I want to be.

I don't know what to do or why I'm here.

The more pressure they keep putting on me the slower I become..

It's all pain and loneliness.

I'm sorry this is such a crap introduction. I can't focus right now.

Parents
  • With an autism diagnosis you most probably (you may need to be assessed on how your autism affects your daily life) qualify as disabled. This puts you in a different category from the non-disabled. Discrimination legislation may offer you some protection and benefits like PIP could give you more income. I would write formal letters, perhaps enclosing your diagnosis, or get a letter from your GP, to all the organisations - such as your local council - involved in your present situation, let them know that you are autistic and ask for help.

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  • With an autism diagnosis you most probably (you may need to be assessed on how your autism affects your daily life) qualify as disabled. This puts you in a different category from the non-disabled. Discrimination legislation may offer you some protection and benefits like PIP could give you more income. I would write formal letters, perhaps enclosing your diagnosis, or get a letter from your GP, to all the organisations - such as your local council - involved in your present situation, let them know that you are autistic and ask for help.

Children
  • Thank you.
    I told the council on the phone and in writing by email about my diagnosis. The only reply I received was 7 days later a court summons dropped through my door.
    I also contacted the Autism Hub in Shrewsbury for help. They lost my email and I had to follow up with a message on their answer machine. Today they finally replied to say they were too busy to help.