Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi my 3 year old granddaughter is having meltdowns that last for hours and cannot be consoled. She is waking most night for hours. My daughter and partner are really struggling and trying to work full time. They have tried lots of different things. She has the same bedtime routine. They are exhausted, anyone been in this situation and can offer some advice. Thank you
The following books have lots of useful info and advice on what to try until you find an approach that works for your child:
Managing Meltdowns and Tantrums on the Autism Spectrum - A Parent and Caregiver's Guide - Jenna Ward-Hawkes, Melissa Rodi (2019)ISBN 9781785928406Managing Meltdowns - Using the S.C.A.R.E.D. Calming Technique With Children and Adults with Autism - Deborah Lipsky, Will Richards (2009)ISBN 9781843109082
Autists are typically creatures of habit and routine so once they crack the technique for her to stay down then that aspect should take care of itself.
You may want to speak to the pharmacist to get advice on some natural remedies to help her stay asleep for a little while to give you some respite and begin forming the routine.