Recently diagnosed (51)

Recently diagnosed with ASD and ADHD (privately) aged 51 and desperate to talk to an ND specialist to help me understand myself better and what support I need (personally and professionally for work and my business) so that those around me can understand me better too.

How do I access talking therapy and/or find a support worker? I’ve felt so alone since receiving my diagnosis and struggling to communicate what I need as I am constantly being triggered to justify my being and my conditions and disability.

I’ve applied to a local organisation called Ramms and need help with the access to work and waiting for a response just like the psychiatrist who diagnosed me. Yet meanwhile have no ND specific support to help me with the practicalities of day to day life and identify what I need in place just to get through the day.

Thanks for listening! Any help or advice would be very much appreciated x

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  • Hi Ottilie, no I havent been offered anything specific noi doubt something else I'll have to get my head around and figh for options...  I'm a massive fan of counselling though and literally just received a call from Ranss the local organisation.  I'm being offered a support worker of my choice and made a booking for next Friday. Plus they're going to send me a list of resources and access to counselling but there is a long waiting list for and look at getting my head around everything that is available. But at least finally things are looking up!

    I even asked her about Access to Work and the questions I was struggling with, I've just ploughed through and made two applications - one for my employment with hubby and one for my own business. so onwards and upwards! 

    I love ND people and need to find where they all are!!!!

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