Published on 12, July, 2020
Our 14 year old just recently received a diagnosis for ASD. We have been dealing with some challenging behaviour for over a year prior to getting the diagnosis and are now feeling exhausted by trying to set reasonable and appropriate boundaries which just keep getting ignored.
Desperate to keep the relationship positive, but also to keep them safe.
Realise we will need to really consider how the diagnosis will impact on how we manage their behaviour. Anyone out there who can offer desperate parents some words of advice?
Brilliant, thank you!
Hello NAS86490,
I'm sorry to hear that you have been coping with some challenging behaviour.
Individuals on the spectrum can often display behaviour that may be challenging. There will generally be a reason for this and it is important to try and understand the trigger for the behaviour when developing strategies. You may like to have a look at the following link for more information on behaviour and strategies:
https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/behaviour
You may be interested in seeking some professional support regarding the behaviour. You can search for professionals in your area we are aware of on the Autism Services Directory:
https://www.autism.org.uk/directory
You might also like to take a look at The Challenging Behaviour Foundation website for further information and advice:
https://www.challengingbehaviour.org.uk. They also have an information and support service which you can contact by phone or email – details can be found here: https://www.challengingbehaviour.org.uk/for-family-carers/family-support-service/
I hope this helps,
ChloeMod