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Hi, I'm Rai. I am currently waiting for an assessment via Right to Choose with Psychiatry UK - referral was confirmed by my GP on 3rd February. I'm 42 and transgender ftm. I'm studying a BA in Education Studies with TESOL (Teaching English to Speakers of Other Languages) and planning a MA by Thesis related to translanguaging afterwards. 

I am going through a lot of change and 'new' at the moment and really struggling so I thought I should look for some peer support.

I enjoy learning about languages and I am currently studying Mandarin, Klingon, Swahili and Hungarian - I like learning how languages work rather than how to speak them. I am also a bit of a Dr Who fan. 

I would love to have some people to talk to who share my interests. 

Not sure what else to say.

  • Hi Tamsin,

    Thank you and me too!

  • Matt Smith is mine. He reminds me of me so he's easier to relate to. I always start with Eleventh Hour (his first episode). What about you?

  • I do that too. I only just found out it wasn't how everyone remembers so you have my unequivocal sympathy on that.

  • Well thank you for proving that the God of Google is only as powerful as its user......which is why Google is a dangerous god!

  • Hi Rai, nice to meet you. Very impressed with all the languages, I struggle with speaking English some days, and it's my native language lol! Looking forward to getting to know you

  • Interesting. I shall have to look into getting myself a copy... Thanks for the recommendation.

    We're all human and make mistakes. I like to look at them as learning opportunities, even the horrible cringey ones. Which can be difficult sometimes, I relive feelings when I remember things so I get a second (often stronger) dose of discomfort lol

  • Hi Rai,

    Welcome!

    Im just getting in 2 doctor who, I'm watching matt smiths eps A.T.M Blush who's your fave doctor

  • It's possible that I'm going through a phase of over analysing my behaviours at the moment lol

    Yes, me too. I'm making all sorts of mistakes too. I had myself convinced that my son was throwing me a birthday party last week because of messages from different people and I went into full meltdown. Of course, my son would never do that, but my brain did it's thing. 

    Yes I highly recommend the book. It goes into quite a bit of detail about how languages impact an individual's epistemology. It helps you to see your learners differently too - understand them better (at least it did for me). 

    I've taught ESOL for about 15 years but I want to go into research so I need the degrees. The book has been quite insightful.

  • I have not. Would you recommend it?

    I'm beginning to notice just how much time I spend watching others when I'm in a group situation, normally focusing on one person at a time. I think it's a requirement for my brain to assess the situation and decide where I fit in before actually attempting to do so.

    It's possible that I'm going through a phase of over analysing my behaviours at the moment lol

  • Hope you'll be very happy here, Rai. Slight smile

  • Hi Alice!

    Yes I can relate. I think that's why I like languages too. I love watching people, but some recent dating experiences have taught me that I still don't get people and possibly never will.

    I find languages are a window into how people live and how they see the world. I know the Sapier- Worf hypothesis is controversial but I thought no it has something going for it. 

    Have you read Through the language glass?

  • Thank you. Who's your favourite Dr?

    I still haven't watched Discovery but I will. 

  • qatlho'

    Something that a Klingon would never say...

  • Hi Rai! I'm also a bit of a Dr Who fan, and a bit of a Star Trek fan. Not enough to learn Klingon, which is awesome btw, but enough to write a Discovery fanfic. ;) 

    Glad to have you with us!

  • Hey!

    Klingon isn't part of my course, but it is is part of a research project I'm working on (sort of). I love that it is based on the culture unlike Vulcan which was designed to lip sinc with English, originally. I really enjoy the cultural aspects of language and Klingon is the ultimate language in that way. 

    Thank you for the welcome Slight smile

  • Hi Steven! 

    Thank you!

  • Hello Rai.  I am Number.

    Klingon....for real?  I know that fans speak it at sci-fi conventions, but on a TESOL course?!

    Welcome to this place.

  • Hello, Rai, and welcome to the forum. Slight smile

  • Hi Rai, I'm Alice.

    I teach ESL and am also a big fan of languages. I'm not great at speaking them, but I've collected the basics of about 13 (and by basic, I mean basic lol). I enjoy learning the different ways people express themselves and how that changes depending on the language and culture. I guess this might be an extension of my general interest in people and how they interact, something I'm beginning to think I will never understand.

    If you ever want to talk about anything, I'm always here to listen and offer my (sometimes questionable and always optional) advice Grinning