Hi, i ( 47f) and am waiting on an assessment for Autism and adhd, i was diagnosed as dyslexic when i was 24 but have only in the past year suspected anything more.
i am having terrible problems at work, i have rsd ( rejection sensitive dysphoria) and can’t take any criticism, i have a new manager who i just don’t get on with and have had several confrontations with, she doesn’t know the job yet and doesn’t wont my input. So im left feeling worthless. The other day i was informed that the new manager has put in a formal complaint against me, over one of these confrontations. I was subjected to a two hour interview, on my birthday, where i was questioned over the details, ( which I really can’t remember)
i have been told to walk away from a situation, so i can carme and think, but my new manager won’t let me, saying im being rude, yet she walks away from me. I just felt trapped and was trying to defend myself.
i was so upset, i self harmed and have been signed off due to work placed stress and anxiety , so the decision has now been delayed.
I can’t stop crying, this is the ultimate telling off!
i have tried everything i can to help my managers to understand me. I have got funding for training, coaching and i have written down all the things that triggered my rsd. I have accommodations in place but they don’t follow them.
im sorry if you’ve just sat a read this, but it did feel good getting it off my chest