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Relationship issues

NAS80319
over 2 years ago

Hi I’m new to this and I’m trying to learn as much as I can about dating a woman with autism she is not been diagnosed but she is definitely autistic what I wanted to know is there any good books to read on dating women with autism .I find it extremely hard to connect with her and the lack of emotions she shows I read things wrong quite often as regards to how she is feeling and when it comes to sex I’m often way off the mark in this aspect as I have a high sex drive and she doesn’t.I really love this girl to bits but we argue a lot and I find myself feeling insecure and paranoid when she is engrossed in so many things but me . I know this is my total lack of understanding in this field and would like to know more about it to try and save a relationship with a woman I love dearly with all my heart . 

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  • over 2 years ago

    My best advice would be ask. No two autistic people are alike. You'll only find out how to deal with her by asking her about it. I know this is contrary to what's usually expected in relationships. That you are expected to 'read' the other person usually. Believe me she has emotions even if you can't read them. So ask her. 'How, what, when, where, why,' these are your new best friends in the relationship. Let her tell you what you can't read.

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  • over 2 years ago

    My best advice would be ask. No two autistic people are alike. You'll only find out how to deal with her by asking her about it. I know this is contrary to what's usually expected in relationships. That you are expected to 'read' the other person usually. Believe me she has emotions even if you can't read them. So ask her. 'How, what, when, where, why,' these are your new best friends in the relationship. Let her tell you what you can't read.

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