Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi there.
My name is Garry.
I am 37 years old.
I have just been diagnosed with autism, I am not sure what level, I am still in the process of taking it all in.
I can understand why I have struggled with work and social situations all my life. I feel doors are opening up for me in regards to help and support, with things like looking for the right job, help with organising my finances etc.
I guess I am keen to know that this diagnosis means for me. I have just heard at the age of 5 I was tested, my mum always felt like the doctors and medical professionals were trying to hide something from her.
This has been a journey over the last few years I have been on. I have self diagnosed for at least a few years, and now I officially know does it change anything?
I am also keen to make new friends, I put up barriers because I have been hurt so much in the past, but I am keen to build new relationships, hoping to have learn from the past, my faith helps, it is the biggest part of me. It gives me hope and comfort.
Stay safe everyone!
Hi Garry welcome to this forum of autistic adults and non-autistic carers/parents/partners
What did they say in your report like do you have any co morbid conditions with your autism ? eg OCD anxiety depression
Going to be assessed for ADHD in the future. Have been diagnosed with anxiety and depression over 20 years but I think that is rubbish/or its just a symptom of the main problem.
i have ADHD as well,, to me it can be real bother it was today for example - i moved offices and couldnt concentrate today i was watching traffic and birds anything it took several attempts to get me to concentrate on work...
only listen to professionals they're the ones that know best
But most 'professionals' only ever think about NTs - they are totally lost when dealing with ASD people - they will tend to bluff it rather than admit they are out of their depth.