Married over 40 years (No diagnosis or discussion with husband)

Hello

I have joined the NAS Society this afternoon to hopefully spend some time with others who may know what it's like to live with a man who (I think) is on the spectrum!

I separated for 8 years but we got back together 8 years ago! I thought he had changed! But he hasn't,(I know this is because he can't but it doesn't make it any easier) in fact if anything he is even more difficult to live with! He is 68 and I am 65. Are there any people on here who could share how they manage on the days when all seems to be "wrong" with the relationship? Selfishness, egocentricity- but no insight into this. Lack of empathy. Drinking too much alcohol when with friends for the 1st time in almost a year.. then behaving in a "silly way" The list could go on.

If anyone has similar issues I'd be grateful for some wise words or even in knowing I'm not alone. I feel so sad at times. 

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