Published on 12, July, 2020
hey im vicky
I've got a 7 year old boy who is in the process of being referred to community peads. Been fighting 2 years while home schooling him. LA dont seem to bother much. Feel like im hitting a brick wall.. as not getting any help and don't know where to even start.
Hospital have told me their still working on Dec 2017 referrals and I started referral Aug 2018 .
Any help would be grateful... or even just to make a friend.. dont have many of them
Hi. I got referred may last year and got given a choice after a year waiting of either continuing to wait for nhs or accept referral to healios. It does seem to depend on ur location as to how efficiently u get dealt with. Friends are few and far between these days. Have you been to ur gp?
Yes, gp is one who referred him. Have done this 4 times since aug 18.
Since then ive had local LA come out for home schooling and asked about EHCP and they havent even put me in touch with them.
I'm based in Wiltshire, I know different areas get seen a lot quicker but here its like 3 year wait.
Yeah since my son has been showing signs of adhd and autism friends dont really want to know anymore.
I've enjoyed talking with you
Here if u need a chat.
That’s quite alright.
Yeah you've helped me put a few things into perspective and listened, so I thank you for that.
On a good day. And got used to masking... Hope I have helped you. Really enjoying chatting
You seem very with it to be fair. Been a help to me for sure
I know what it’s like to be pushed aside and ignored so it’s ok. I constantly feel like I’m failing.
I'd do anything for them. They are my world. Just wish I wasn't being sent from pilar to post and not getting anywhere. Cheers for listening
Never. You are doing your best. Life isn’t easy and yeah I’ve struggled a lot and often but I’m doing ok in what you would call life These days. I am sure u are a lovely woman and do ur upmost for ur kids.
Same here. Only out to help their self and not others in need. Ive tried my best so far but feel like I've failed him
Starting to think the worlds definitely full of self obsessed selfish ........ only out to further their own selfish needs.
Same feel stressed that I still can't get anywhere for my boy
Coping I think. How bout u?
hope your ok?
Just spoke to doctors, no help whatsoever... told me to ring social services to see if they can help. Dont really want to ring them and get them involved
They should do. If not set me on them mid meltdown
yes hoping doctors will actually get off *** and at least put me in touch with someone that may be able to help
That’s ok. And sounds very much like you have a good case going for a diagnosis and the risk to ur daughter as well should prompt a response.
Thank you so much for your time. It means alot. Ive just answerd a 31 question test and he scored 25 outta 31 so states he has some sort of learning difficulties.
Will make sure they listen tomorrow, im frightened for my daughters sake. She can't fight him off like me and my mum can.
Good luck with that. Make it clear you are all suffering and you need to get him the support to help all of you and to ensure he has an education. You are not alone. us nice people do still exist in this selfish planet of ours.
Thank you. Likewise