Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi,
My adult daughter recently had a diagnosis of Autism. She lives across the country and I'm here to investigate how best I can support her and her partner.
I'm also investigating my own feelings around it, and the guilt I feel for not knowing.
That's me for now, hope everyone is as well as you are able.
Hello there,
it is so heartwarming to read a post like this. I am an adult diagnosed 6 months ago, I also live a long way from my family and I have decided not to tell any of them because I think there will be discussions behind my back and a lot of denial etc.
You might not realise just how utterly wonderful it is that you write this question and mention your own feelings.
I don't know if you mean practical help or emotional/ personal support. If I had a supportive family member I would probably suggest:
Apologies if this is not what you were after. I was just shooting from the hip there as I've been visit one of my "unaware" family members today and had to go off and cry for a while after. So this is whats on the top of my mind. Worst case you can ignore my comments and someone else will come along with something better :-)
Best case, you can use something or pick up information from other posts.